If I...

If I question who you are, do you cower under the scrutiny? Or perhaps you allow the expansive energy of curiosity?


If I suggest a different way, do you hunker down under the judgment? Or perhaps you allow the potential of something new?


If I ask for clarification on something you’ve shared, do you flare up with insecurity? Or do you kindly offer your insights into the discussion?


If I decide a different way than you have gone, do you slam the door on our connection? Or do you respect the individuality of our choices?


If I walk a different path than you feel is right for me, do you turn your back and walk away? Or do you allow room for our differences?


If I am not what you expect me to be, how do you continue to engage with me in a kind, loving & supportive way?
If I ask you to listen to a new exploration of ideas, do you willingly, open-mindedly listen?


If I wonder what the possibilities could be, do you dream alongside me or close off to the seen reality of what we are currently in?


If I offer you observations about a new way of being – what do you do with it?


If I offend you in some way, do you kindly let me know that I have crossed a boundary so that we can work at our communication skills & deepen our connection?


If I love you exactly as you are, do you receive that love with the intention that it was given?


If I compliment you on who you are in this moment, do you humbly receive this gift or deny your greatness?


If I suggest that you are far more than just a physical body, do you believe in the infinite possibilities that are born of that idea?


If I stumble in my life, do you stand alongside me waiting for my acknowledgement that I now need help?


If I imagine a life of my wildest dreams, do you soar along with me in the creation of your own?


If I humbly ask that you & I remain open-hearted, open-minded as we travel this amazing journey in life, can we support, love, and acknowledge each other?


If I live my best life possible, can you be inspired to do the same in yours?


If I wish you love, light, healing energy & adventures to fill your soul, can you accept & live from that place?

I hope so!

Brenda Dowell